Being 26 I can offer a few words of advice since I have just about finished learning the ropes of money management. To be able to save up for a house, you need to be able to manage your money and learn how to save as an independent adult.
I think everyone is different, but for me, the real way I learned was to blow all of my money on stuff I didn't really need at first. After graduating high school, I landed a modest IT salary and blew all of my money on computers, eating out, modifying late model mustangs, and the resulting parking and speeding tickets. It was a hell of a fun time and I don't regret it. Personally I think it?s worth it to spend one's newly found income on vacationing, significant others, or personal own hobbies. Then as you get more responsibilities you can tighten the wallet.
I was living on my own, paying my own rent, utilities, cell phone, Internet, etc. Although I technically wasted a lot of money--for example, I probably dropped 25k into my mustangs and only got 13K back--I had fun and learned a lot.
In retrospect as my salary has skyrocketed in the last year, I *really* didn't lose that much money. I can make that 12K up in no time. Using the money management skills that I learned along the way in my current situation, I'm able to save much much more, and I am reaching my own down payment goal faster.
It?s nearly impossible to teach someone how to save money for something as large as a house, especially when they're getting started in the work place and have to pay all of their own bills. You kind of have to figure it out on your own, and you need to learn self restraint on your own. Delayed self gratification is very difficult, especially in such a materialistic society as Orange County. If you can't keep from swiping plastic for everything from clothes to food to stuff you buy online, then you haven't learned self restraint, and you won't be able to save.
One thing that all of my friends learned the hard way when in their early 20s, and some have yet to learn, is to pay off their credit cards every month. If you can just restrain yourself from charging everything and paying in cash or debit instead, you'll be way ahead of 95% of people your age. Take out a big percentage of your paycheck in cash so that you can see the money you're spending. The visual of cash coming out of your wallet will overpower the desire to have whatever is on sale at the District or the Spectrum.
Finally, don't worry too much about your school loans. I had 6K in loans from UCI the first year I went there and I totally freaked out over them. 6 grand seemed like a lot to me at the time, but once you get working and start to get a higher salary, it won't be so intimidating. Plus, some big employers will help pay off your school loans. Otherwise, make use of any gov. subsidized interest rates as long as possible and look into loan consolidation programs. My buddy graduated from UCSB with 20K of debt from 3-4 different State and Federal loans and he only pays $100 per month with a very low interest rate. It?s no big deal to him now that he's a licensed CPA and it allows him to save for a house in the mean time so he and his wife can buy a home sooner. Once he moves up to a management position he can probably pay off the principle in a few months.
If you are a geek type like me, I recommend taking an accounting or finance class at the local JC for 80 bucks and buying a few basic finance books at local Borders. Heck you don't even have to buy them, just get a $3 latte and plop down in one of their in-store cafes.