traceimage
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So I used to read all the time on IHB not to buy a home, that the bottom was coming, etc. Even though we were already looking for a house at the point, it made me a little nervous. What if we bought a house and THEN the bottom fell out of prices and everything dropped dramatically? What if all the foreclosures came onto the market, as IR predicted, causing once-limited inventory to surge and prices to drop?
But because it was the right time for our family to buy a house, we bit the bullet and bought anyway, and I'm glad we did. I don't worry anymore about the elusive "bottom," or when it might be coming, or if it passed already, etc. We're not investors looking to make money on a housing flip; we're just a family who wanted a place to live, that we own, so we can do whatever we want to it (remodel, paint whatever color we want, etc). I feel like now we're in our house living our life, rather than putting everything on hold, waiting for a huge drop in housing prices that may or may not ever come.
So that's the lesson I learned: you gotta do what's right for you, when it's right. I'd hate to think of where I'd be now if I'd slavishly listened to IR. I guess I'd still be in an apartment somewhere, panicked that we should wait just a few more months or years, so maybe we could save a few bucks. I'd probably feel like I was still waiting for the next phase of my life to start.
There's nothing wrong with renting, if that's your choice. But for us, it felt like we were stuck in a holding pattern. It's nice now to feel like we can really put down roots.
But because it was the right time for our family to buy a house, we bit the bullet and bought anyway, and I'm glad we did. I don't worry anymore about the elusive "bottom," or when it might be coming, or if it passed already, etc. We're not investors looking to make money on a housing flip; we're just a family who wanted a place to live, that we own, so we can do whatever we want to it (remodel, paint whatever color we want, etc). I feel like now we're in our house living our life, rather than putting everything on hold, waiting for a huge drop in housing prices that may or may not ever come.
So that's the lesson I learned: you gotta do what's right for you, when it's right. I'd hate to think of where I'd be now if I'd slavishly listened to IR. I guess I'd still be in an apartment somewhere, panicked that we should wait just a few more months or years, so maybe we could save a few bucks. I'd probably feel like I was still waiting for the next phase of my life to start.
There's nothing wrong with renting, if that's your choice. But for us, it felt like we were stuck in a holding pattern. It's nice now to feel like we can really put down roots.