roundcorners_IHB
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I came to a couple of conclusions this weekend, as I re-read my <a href="http://www.irvinehousingblog.com/forums/viewthread/5047/">poll</a> of why I love Irvine (Orange County) now in my current life stage versus the Los Angeles of my youth. What I am realizing is that I?m officially middle-age! I don?t think middle-age is actually a physical age; but a mind-set. For I know long-time peers older than myself who are still single, still partying, dating and prefer it that way.
I don?t think it?s about being married or about being a new dad. It?s not even about liking thing really quiet, eating with the seniors at 5:30pm or wanting to call it a night at 9. I think is about being really content with being simply stable, predictable and consistent.
I can really understand now how my mom can have friends who she hasn?t spoken to in years; call them out of the blue to ask them trivial questions. She probably know that if she hasn?t heard from them, that nothing significant or life changing has occurred, she enjoys the fact that they can simply pick up the conversation where they last left off.
I can?t believe I?m saying this, but I?m actually looking forward to doing almost the same monotonous things for the next twenty years. Going to work; coming home; raising a family; being a husband to my wife and a friend to others. I take some sort of comfort in the thought and Irvine would be a perfect place for that.
Another good indicator of the bottom is when first time buyers like us buy a house because they want this kind of predictably without any hint of speculation we?ve seen. We love Irvine, however if the day the bottom comes and we can?t safely afford the house we want we just might have to look at boundary cities. Affordable payments will be the new luxury in housing.
The days of entitlement, greed and fear in housing are over. I personally know peers who bought in Irvine during the bubble who are now so financially stretch for so long that the uncertainties of their lives are finally catching up with them. Sure, some of them will probably receive some sort of assistance from their parents but some will eventually have to make some sort of painful decisions. We would never be caught in the sort of sacrifices such as; subletting out rooms, working double/side jobs, daylong childcare and basically being house poor. A few couples we know may have the large Irvine SFR, however the husbands are stressed out traveling for business and the wives are completely anxious about the coming baby. We?re all young and tough now, but that has to do something to your health eventually.
I don?t think it?s about being married or about being a new dad. It?s not even about liking thing really quiet, eating with the seniors at 5:30pm or wanting to call it a night at 9. I think is about being really content with being simply stable, predictable and consistent.
I can really understand now how my mom can have friends who she hasn?t spoken to in years; call them out of the blue to ask them trivial questions. She probably know that if she hasn?t heard from them, that nothing significant or life changing has occurred, she enjoys the fact that they can simply pick up the conversation where they last left off.
I can?t believe I?m saying this, but I?m actually looking forward to doing almost the same monotonous things for the next twenty years. Going to work; coming home; raising a family; being a husband to my wife and a friend to others. I take some sort of comfort in the thought and Irvine would be a perfect place for that.
Another good indicator of the bottom is when first time buyers like us buy a house because they want this kind of predictably without any hint of speculation we?ve seen. We love Irvine, however if the day the bottom comes and we can?t safely afford the house we want we just might have to look at boundary cities. Affordable payments will be the new luxury in housing.
The days of entitlement, greed and fear in housing are over. I personally know peers who bought in Irvine during the bubble who are now so financially stretch for so long that the uncertainties of their lives are finally catching up with them. Sure, some of them will probably receive some sort of assistance from their parents but some will eventually have to make some sort of painful decisions. We would never be caught in the sort of sacrifices such as; subletting out rooms, working double/side jobs, daylong childcare and basically being house poor. A few couples we know may have the large Irvine SFR, however the husbands are stressed out traveling for business and the wives are completely anxious about the coming baby. We?re all young and tough now, but that has to do something to your health eventually.